Let me state clearly and simply that marraige between two persons of the same gender is wrong! While you may disagree with my position, your disagreement does not change the fact that same sex marraige is WRONG! This is not a debate, it is a matter of a clear reading of multiple Bible passages that are not open to interpretation or errors/errors in translation.
Having said that, Christians do not hate gays. People who claim to be gay are suffering from the same disease that all lost people suffer, namely sin. Jesus died so that sinners might have eternal life. When sinners accept Christ as Savior their lives become new (different) and they turn away (180 degrees) from their former life. As Christians, we are commanded to speak the Good News of the Gospel to all humanity without respect of gender, race, ethnicity, or anything else that divides the family of man. We don't quit loving people because they are homosexual, Jesus didn't!
Secular media personalities cannot hope to understand Christians unless they become Christians. And as Christians, how should be expect lost people to act? Lost people are under the influence and guidance of Satan himself. They are his people and have no rules to guide their behavior.
Christians are also sinners with one huge difference, they have placed their hope of salvation and eternal life in the hands of Jesus. There is NONE so scarred and dirty that he cannot be made white as snow at the foot of the cross. We serve a mighty, compassionate Savior Who offers the promise of eternal life in heaven and abundant life on Earth to all those who would simply trust him.